Finally finished the 2nd edition of my novel of autobiographical fiction, updated with the latest developments in my story following my appearances as victim/witness at the Child Abuse Royal Commission. Published by IngramSparks 2023, order from your book shop ISBN...
First, I suggest you read my couple’s story Repaired There you may find it’s not a straight line from dead relationship to growing together again. Life Happens! Few people can afford the six month commitment of time and money that the psychology today...
The space you inhabit as a couple is like a room. It is around you, in between you and beyond you. We easily forget to nurture our awareness of the space inside and outside of that room. As an exercise take a few deep calming breaths, and come to an awareness of the...
“One day when my mother is healed, she will finally be able to be a mother to me” or, “One day when I am good enough, mother will be here for me.” This is the dream forged in the heart of the parentified child, that her hard work will pay off one day and her mother...
Coaches ask questions to help one or both partners in a relationship to improve something – for example, improving communication, personal growth or helping them respond to needs better.Improvement will be judged on metrics decided on by the stakeholders. Therapy is...
The idea that men can just have sex for the sake of sex and get enough out of it is a fallacy In 2016, a study published in the Journal of Sex Research surveyed straight men in long-term heterosexual relationships about what elicited their desire, and found that key...
